People are right when they say marriage changes after kids. Of course it does. You add children, sleep deprivation, constant logistics, and the kind of daily pressure that leaves very little room for autopilot. Things are going to shift. What people do not say enough is that the shift does not have to be a bad thing. Sometimes marriage gets stronger after kids because it gets more honest. It becomes less about the easy parts and more about what your relationship is actually made of. When we...

People love to say, “I don’t know how you do it.” And honestly, some days, I don’t either. Having two sets of twins under four isn’t just busy. It is full. Full of movement, full of noise, full of love, full of needs. It is a life where something meaningful and something overwhelming can exist in the same hour. It stretches you in every direction, then somehow keeps expanding your heart anyway. When I found out I was having twins the first time, I laughed. Not because I felt calm, but because...